On Friendship

It's during this time in life that I am aware of the power of friendship. It is a tool that is taken far too lightly and tossed around with not enough meaning. It's about stepping up to the plate, ready to do whatever is needed but not waiting to be asked. And, it's about asking for help, love or a shoulder to cry on; a two-way street of ultimate power. Sometimes I feel awkward when I step up to say that I want to show up. It seems like I have a learning curve on when to make the gesture, but there's a bigger learning curve for the other person.

Friendship is an opportunity to learn, to feel loved, to move forward in life in the safety of someone that can be trusted. Today I say, “thank you” to those who have not disowned me for stepping up when babies are born, when something isn't quite right (but you're not sure what), and after the funeral. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share your journey. It's taught me lots, and and enriched my life beyond measure.